Life as they say is a journey…a journey full of challenges, mishaps and problems, and it is a fact because there is no perfect life. Pains, heartbreaks and disappointments are always there to challenge our stability and resiliency, and oftentimes people succumb to these challenges and remain in status-quo. They are afraid to take on new challenges for they are afraid to suffer the same fate. They don’t want to venture into new prospects because they might end up with the same results. But how can we possibly know if what awaits us will be the same as the former if we will remain in status-quo. Life should always be dealt with positivity and optimism, for life doesn’t end when we loose one time. Every opportunity is always an opportunity to counter the results of the past, and turn it into a better present or future it might be. There will always be threat of loosing, because there will always be an opportunity to win. Isn’t it more fulfilling to loose one time and win after, rather than having nothing to loose and at the same time nothing to win at all. It just takes great faith and belief in oneself, for life is a walk of faith. Accept the past with no regret, deal with the present with great courage, and look forward to the future with the promise of success.
Never doubt your beliefs and never believe your doubts.
Everyday we make decisions, every hour we are bound to make choices, and we can all conclude that LIFE really is like a big market of everything to choose from. Decision making always poised us to choose, whether it is aggreable to many people (the society that is) or just to ourselves.
It may be hard to balance something that is widely popular to what we believe in, but that’s the challenge of decision making, having to prove that what you have chosen is what’s best for you. Sometimes it may abruptly show the results of our choices, but sometimes it also takes time before we can see its effects. Nonetheless, everything we choose, should be what our heart says, consolidated with logical thinking. Although heart and mind doesn’t always sync, it is always better to consider both.
In our life we are only given one choice per situation, there are no such thing as neutral zone, we should always choose which one; left or right, one or two, etc. What really matter is that when we come up with a decision and we are ready to make our choice, it should have gone through deep contemplation and reverence, so that in the end, whatever the outcome may be, we can always say “I may not have the concurrence of anybody, but still I did a great choice”, and that is vindication. Having proved that even though you have made a “silly” or unpopular choice according to the society, you proved to have made the better CHOICE…